Saturday, March 19, 2011

when you come to the fork in the road of life

and you don't know what lies ahead in either direction,




how do you decide which way to go?




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Friday, March 18, 2011

love hurts

love scars,

love wounds and mars,




ooh ooh love hurts.





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Thursday, March 17, 2011

a place of peace


& a giggle here and there.





there is a cemetery 2 blocks from the house.

john's aunt betty is buried there.

we took a walk to visit her.

while john & his uncle visited,



i wandered around.

it's a very beautiful and peaceful place.

some of the sites date back to the 1800's.


there are a few stone benches scattered about.

they have loving and heartfelt messages etched on them.









a few of them made me giggle.





i am thinking that when the deceased was alive,

family and friends must have had some good times and great laughs when they were together.





spending an eternity under this giant oak wouldn't be so bad
              




Wednesday, March 16, 2011

just messing around

a couple of weeks ago when i was on a walk thru claremont,

i took a few pictures of the trees and flowers.

then i came back and tried out a few of the picture editing features on my pc.





















 this was straight out of the camera


Tuesday, March 15, 2011

i'll make you cry uncle

john's uncle leonard was out to see us in january for a few weeks.

uncle leonard is the youngest brother to john's dad. 

he also is the very kind and generous uncle that is letting us stay in his house in claremont
while he lives back in pennsylvania.

this picture was taken after a great meal out at a local restaurant.


                                                       john          uncle leonard       john sr

Monday, March 14, 2011

nice to meet you

on friday, audrey was able to meet her great grandma



and great grandma was able to meet her 15th great grandchild.




Thursday, February 17, 2011

i love.....

                                                          


                                                          winter in southern california



















Wednesday, February 16, 2011

i love.....



audrey maxine
february 11, 2011
6:32pm
8lbs 5oz
20.5 inches

blessed parents
travis and krystin















Thursday, February 10, 2011

i love.....


...nicolson farm's strawberries...
we almost lost them a few years ago to over development
but one of the few good things to come out of the housing bust
is that this strawberry farm was saved from destruction.
it is a small field on foothill blvd, old route 66, which is a very busy road
in the middle of a very populated area.
it has been our tradition for the last 15 years to visit this farm from the minute they open in february
to the last day they are open in june/july

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

i love.....




                         wishing both john (aka grandpa) and adelyn a very happy birthday today!!!!




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Tuesday, February 8, 2011

i love.....


my pretty blue slippers and my cozy flannel pj's
(both gifts from trav & krystin)

Monday, February 7, 2011

i love.....


                                              the handmade quilts my mom has made for me




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Sunday, February 6, 2011

i love.....


the u.s. library system that provides everyone the opportunity to read a book

& for free!!!




 


Saturday, February 5, 2011

i love.....


marie callendar's chocolate satin pie




Friday, February 4, 2011

i love.....


my sweet baby boy





 

i love.....


watching dreams come true





i love.....


my husband





i love....



butterflies warming themselves in the sun





Saturday, January 1, 2011

all dressed up

and so many places to go.

that's how the new year seems to me.

kinda like going to a party...

all dressed up in baubles and bows
grand schemes and plans to whoop it up and party on down
hopes for a good time
apprehension about what is going to happen when you get there
wondering who you are going to meet, maybe some old friends and even a few new ones

if we are lucky, the year turns out pretty well.
a few bumps and bruises along the way,
but overall, not too bad.

but of course, this is life we are talking about.
not a fairy tale party.

some years are better than others.
sometimes it's a series of good years or bad years.
all we can do is hang on and ride the bad ones out
and be grateful for the blessings of the good ones.

2009 was a not so good year for us.
we crept into 2010
feeling a bit battered and beaten up.
not knowing what to expect because
decisions had been made and
plans put into place.

2010 was going to be a year of change
whether we were ready or not.
even if we wanted it or not.

these changes did not just affect john and i.
it would ripple thru family and friends.

but change we did
and oh,
never in a million years did we ever imagine what
was waiting for us.

we sold our house of almost 13 years and
went from living in a 1800 sq ft 3bedroom house
to a 30foot 5th wheel travel trailer.

we found a new home for our sweet, loving gibson dog

said a tearfull good bye to family and friends

got into the truck,
hauled the new home on wheels
thru rain, snow, and wind,
and headed for jackson, wyoming
(second guessing everything we were doing the whole 918 miles)

we settled into a whole new way of life.
living in a trailer in a national park campground
and working in a warehouse.
sounds a bit like typical white trailer trash
and it took awhile to stop being embarrassed of the way we were living
and change our mindset about the whole thing.

eventually, as we met more people living this workamper lifestyle
and looked around at our surroundings and new way of life,
we slowly came to a new way of thinking.

thinking things like -

-there is nothing wrong with getting out from under a mortgage
 that you can't pay for when you are out of work.

-there is nothing wrong with wanting to travel
 and see places you normally would not get the chance to see
 if you were working 9 to 5, six days a week, with one week vacation.

-there is nothing wrong with doing a physically demanding job
 and finding that you have lost 20 pounds because of it.
 (john was the lucky one on that, definitely not me)

-there is nothing wrong actually enjoying being in a traffic jam
 on the way to work, not because of an accident, but because
 25 bison and their new babies decided to cross the highway right in front of you.

-there is nothing wrong being late to work
 because you had to stop to take pictures of the moose at the bridge.

-there is everything right when you watch the worry lines and stress from years
 of working a high demand job disappear from your husband's face.

-there is everything right when you discover
 that you can spend almost 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, for 6 months
 with your spouse and realize you really are good friends after all.

-there is everything right when you share your new home and way of life
 with your kids, their spouses, the new grandbaby, the new grandbaby bump,
 your mom, and sister in law, showing them places and animals
 they might not have seen if it wasn't for you.

- there is everything right and nothing wrong
  with starting out on a new path in life, completely changing your
  whole mindset about how life should be lived, finding out how
  little you really need to get by, realizing how much you gain by
  living simply, meeting new friends and discovering all the wonderful things this
  big world has to offer.

2010 started out with the potential of being one of the worse years of our lives and
ended as one of the best.

all it took was being brave enough to take that first tentative step into the unknown
and being smart enough to learn what a gift we had been given. 

today is the first day of 2011.

it is still shiny and perfect.
still dressed up in it's pretty new ribbons and bows.

who knows how it will look in december
after life has it's way with it for the next 12 months.

i can only hope
that under the wear and tear of what life brings our way
2011 still has a bit of shine to it
and we aren't too sad to see it go.